i need help/advice from a woman's view

bongogocrazy

I had a one night stand a few weeks ago. i wanna say 3 weeks to be exact. i still have her number and she has my number. i was wondering, i just want reinsurance that she isn't preg so she can't come to like in 9 months and be like you got me preg, heres ur kid, blah blah.

any advice? I was told by one person that if she was preg she would have tried contacting me to let me know.

Timothy_N · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 03:13 pm Post subject:

Why don't you just call her and ask?

bongogocrazy · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 03:20 pm Post subject:

im for sure not calling her. if anything ill text her. but how do i word it? and i don't want her thinking i want with her. was a regretful night and i was drunk and wish my roommate would have punched me and said if you really need to get off go in the bathroom, here is lotion, tissues and a porno.

tell me how i can word it so all i find out is did she get preg or am i save. i was with one girl long long time ago said she was preg and she wasn't. she lied and said preg to try and get me to stay. if really was preg *slit*

ShUgaSHaNe · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 03:51 pm Post subject:

ur gong to be a babyfather !

grats bongo !

HotZhot · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 03:53 pm Post subject:

Timothy_N · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 03:54 pm Post subject:

If I was worried a girl was pregnant I would just call and ask. Seems simple enough to me.
If I was worried that she might think I liked her, even though I didn't, I would just tell her
that I didn't like her.

If she said she was pregnant I would demand proof.

bongogocrazy · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 03:57 pm Post subject:

i need an example of something to say...

"hey bitch, your not preg are you whore?"

"I am just checking to make sure the birth control is working and your not preg."

"hey, hows things going?" "ya?" "hey are you preg, if so jump off a cliff for me."

HotZhot · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 04:12 pm Post subject:

bongogocrazy · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 04:16 pm Post subject:

i havn't seen her since the one night stand. just was talking one day, then i picked her up, i was straving so we got a bite to eat, then went to watch a movie at the house and relax. then got beer. then i got way too drunk. i don't think she is preg, i havn't seen her or talked to her since that night. i did talk to her next day. she said something to me. i told her that im not looking for anything serious. i asked if she was on birth control and she said ya. but im kinda nervous if she was or not. i was really drunk. if anything whatever and she preg then my life is seriously over and you guys don't know the half of it.

the_pillo · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 04:53 pm Post subject:

Easy enough.

"hey mi amiga, whats up? how have thing been for you?"

let me explain what each part means.

hey mi amiga = your only a friend but im interested in knowing some things

whats up = Simple enough, what are you up to?

how have things been for you? = are you fucking pregnant!

hehe, if she is pregnant she will definitly tell you quickly after the first text. If not, it will seem like a normal conversation.

bongogocrazy · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 05:11 pm Post subject:

bongogocrazy · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 05:23 pm Post subject:

holy F!!!!! wow.

just a word of advice to anyone and everyone wrap your shit! it is expensive to get tested without insurance... $100-$150. I don't have any symtoms or anything but I would just like to get tested just for reinsurance. I am going to do some pricing on do it yourself. there are 3 tests they test for. $40, $40, $10 pluss doctor's visit. So $90 for a test to do at home I think is ok. I read if do at home test don't go cheap like a preg-o test. wow. that freaking sucks ass.

bongogocrazy · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 05:28 pm Post subject:

if anyone needs a hiv test kit

http://www.walgreens.com/store/c/home-access-express-hiv-1-test-system/ID=prod5135-product

i found one at walgreen $60. and you do the test and mail it or whatever to the doctor's office then you get results. my only problem is i need to go to a walgreens i don't go to in town. i only have 6 that i can think of in town. lol. i have my top 3 all on same street. very east end, middle of town and far west. but i have to know so i guess im gonna go buy it.

wish me luck everyone. ill let you guys know the results. lol.

Kolba · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 07:35 pm Post subject:

Jesus, this kind of thread reminds me my "hot 2 times" when it was so close to becomming a immature father, tests never went positive, thank God it didn't happen. I just got shivers when i even read this kind of sh*t.

Halo · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 08:15 pm Post subject:

nah son you good

1+3+3=7 · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 08:47 pm Post subject:

Women don't exist on the Internet. sad

Myoga- · Posted: 08 Nov 2010 08:54 pm Post subject:

PiNk · Posted: 09 Nov 2010 12:05 am Post subject:

Hint:
If you don't wanna a child, wrap dat shit up.

If I was you, I'd call/text her.
Or maybe see her for coffee or something.

bongogocrazy · Posted: 09 Nov 2010 12:28 pm Post subject:

you guys... lol. she isn't preg. she is D/D free. I am just going to get myself tests so i can blow up and post the results i am still clean so people will stop talking smack.

as for the coffee with her, hell no! ug. no. ever hear of you look better when im drunk, go buy me another 36 pack, they on sale.

as for women not on the internet, you should fix that. women are on the internet and some are super hotties. But not on a site like this. on facebook. I know cause there is this one chick i know personally who is on facebook and god damn! flat tight stomach, D cup percky, nice ass. just all around makes your mouth water. i loved talking to her when she worked at the place my girl works at. I would go talk to her while im waiting for my girl to get off work. that chick never wore underwear and the way she would bend over to work on the isles in the store. damn. i miss that.

PiNk · Posted: 09 Nov 2010 12:50 pm Post subject:

Pssh. Fine. I'm not a hot girl or anything.